Posts Tagged ‘relationships’

10 Reasons He Just Wants To Be “Friends”

October 17, 2009

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Every once in a while, a gal will meet a guy that she knows likes her as a person as well as romantically, however, he refuses to make it happen… He refuses to take that extra step to start something up between them and see how it goes. This is when a gal finds herself trapped in the dreaded Friends Zone!!! :O”

1. The Holidays Are Coming Up And He’s Broke.

Having a significant other generally means that you have to get them a gift for their birthday, Christmas, Valentine’s Day. If he’s broke and legitimately cannot afford a gift for you, he may hold off on the boyfriend/girlfriend status because not getting you a gift will make him seem cheap and embarassing, and he would rather be single than be called cheap.

2. Your Friendship or Business Is More Important

Keep your eyes on the prize!!! 😀 You don’t want to jack you career advancement because your now-ex-girlfriend doesn’t want to see your grill around the office. Bite the bullet on this one and get PizAID!!! You can pull a lot more chicks with the money you’ll be getting from this one. 😉

Also, if you expect a certain level of coolness and mental compatibility, close homegirls are hard to find. Beleedat! It’s TOTALLY not worth it to alienate a great gal because she’s sour that y’all aren’t hooking up anymore. But hey… I mean if she begs you, you might just have to do her that solid and hit her off, NAH MEEN? 😀

3. HE Can’t Handle It

A brotha stands to potentially lose some Cool Points if he hooks up with a chick that’s TOO FOYINE and then all that “King Of My Castle” trash he’s been talking about women for YEARS suddenly evaporates into thin air. He might have to take a pass on this one in order to maintain his Social Cred.

4. You’re Way Hotter Than Him and He’s Insecure That You’ll Leave Him

Guys really do think that way. He would rather not date you than date you and be dumped by you. Because then he would be that douchebag that got dumped by the hot girl. And it would hurt his self esteem and image for longer than you would probably be dating. He’s gotta look out for himself in this situation. That’s why you see so many good looking guys with not so good looking girls. They are confident that she’ll stick around. It’s hard being hot. I know…

5. You’re Damaged Goods (Bros Before Hoes)

Well you brought this upon yourself, what can I say? If you’re trying to hook up with a guy or date him, DO NOT.. I repeat.. DO NOT hook up, date, sleep around, flirt, text, his friends. Contrary to what you may think, guys DO talk and they will talk about that girl (YOU) who is trying to play them like they were born yesterday. So be wise and most importantly, choose wisely. One stupid drunken hook up could curse your future forever.
You’re damaged goods (Bros before Hoes)

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Selfish, Selfless, Self-what???

August 26, 2009

So I’ve been doing a lot of thinking over the past few days and after re-evaluating my blog, my life and everything I own, I feel very priviledged to have everything I have. It’s a hard society with people who can barely eat and who are getting laid off from their jobs left and right, but we women, (and men) must fight on. The show must go on, right?

At what point do you have to say, I am  being too selfish. Do you think that women shoud have the right to be able to be SELFISH and buy extravagant purses if they work hard for the money. Do you think they should be able to go out with friends, and have no regrets? Or do you think that at a certain age, women should think about their life and get a boyfriend/husband, whatever.

I completely understand that if you have a kid, then yes, you do owe it to him or her to have a good life. You need to think about them and be selfless. You brought them into this world and it is your responsibility, but if you don’t have any major changes, then should you be able to be the free, single, independent, empowered woman that you really want to be?

Please comment, I would really love to know!

Top 10 Reasons To Date a Geek!

May 22, 2009

Studs are hot but geeks are chic. Find out why here. Bill and I explain why its best to date a geek.  Here’s a sample:

5. You never have to pay customer support to figure out why your website isn’t working.

L: How annoying is it to call customer support all the time to try and fix your website, computer or anything else on the internet? Do you know what DHCP or HTML means? Me neither, but that’s why you have a geek boyfriend/girlfriend. 24 hour support ’round the clock style, and the best part is that you’re not on hold for 2 hours! Hallelujah!

B: No doubt. A few back massages and some “special attention” ;) and there’s no need for you to call Kansas… and be re-routed to India.
Read the rest here!

TMIweekly featuring Julia Allison, Meghan Asha and Mary Rambin

October 8, 2008

I’m working on this new show called TMIweekly – a 3x a week show hosted by Julia Allison, Meghan Asha and Mary Rambin. From SEX, TECH and STYLE, this show covers everything you are thinking, but no one says out loud. Definitely TMI!

Watch and let me know what you think in the comments below!

10 Mistakes Guys Make When Trying to Get a Girl

July 30, 2008

Guys – so you’re single and you are trying so hard to get a girl, but there’s just no success?

Here’s one tip – You’re NOT following the rules.

Here are some tips from Bill and me….. GOOD LUCK.

Relationships!!! And what YOU need to know.

July 9, 2008

Ever since I can remember, I have been giving advice. On anything and everything. When I was in college (sans boyfriend) fraternities would have me come and speak to them about relationships. Why? I don’t know. I guess I just liked to talk. And apparently I give funny and pretty fool proof advice with no frills.

More recently Bill Cammack and I have been posting about relationship advice from both male and female perspectives.

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Got a question or a dilemma about a relationship (or lack thereof)? Post it in the comments or EMAIL ME and I’ll be sure that Bill and I answer it!

Love,

Your relationship guru