Selfish, Selfless, Self-what???

August 26, 2009

So I’ve been doing a lot of thinking over the past few days and after re-evaluating my blog, my life and everything I own, I feel very priviledged to have everything I have. It’s a hard society with people who can barely eat and who are getting laid off from their jobs left and right, but we women, (and men) must fight on. The show must go on, right?

At what point do you have to say, I amΒ  being too selfish. Do you think that women shoud have the right to be able to be SELFISH and buy extravagant purses if they work hard for the money. Do you think they should be able to go out with friends, and have no regrets? Or do you think that at a certain age, women should think about their life and get a boyfriend/husband, whatever.

I completely understand that if you have a kid, then yes, you do owe it to him or her to have a good life. You need to think about them and be selfless. You brought them into this world and it is your responsibility, but if you don’t have any major changes, then should you be able to be the free, single, independent, empowered woman that you really want to be?

Please comment, I would really love to know!


2 Responses to “Selfish, Selfless, Self-what???”

  1. Jessica Says:

    It’s kinda up to you. Some people… Men or women… just aren’t the marrying kind, y’know?

  2. urbanupdater Says:

    But it’s not a bad thing, it’s their one personal preference.

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